How To Talk To Kids About Lice And Tell Them It’s Not Their Fault
There are certain things that are difficult to talk about. There are certain thoughts we can’t verbalize. It’s not because we’re avoiding confrontation.
But it’s because we don’t have the right words to say what’s on our mind. This is especially true when you need to have a “talk” with your kids!
From the birds and bees talk with your child to asking them why they hit their sibling—it’s not easy touching certain topics.
And one topic that is always a little awkward and embarrassing to talk about is head lice.
How exactly does one talk about lice with their kids?
If your kids don’t know what hit them, it can be difficult for them to manage. They need to understand what’s going on. Most toddlers do have some idea of what head lice are.
But it’s best to explain everything by telling them a story. When your child is mentally prepared, they’ll be more cooperative.
Secondly, make sure to educate yourself on the matter as well. Lice don’t infest hair because the individual is “unclean” or lacks personal hygiene. This doesn’t mean your child contracted lice because they were playing in the dirt.
It just means they were playing with someone who had lice.
Be Calm and Collective
Children follow the examples set by their parents. If you’re always anxious and stressed out, it will affect your kids. The first thing you should do is calm yourself down. It’s easy to say this but try a few breathing exercises. If your child sees you panicking, they’ll panic too. Ask them calmly if they’ve contracted head lice. You need to be direct with your questions because kids tend to dodge questions like bullets. Don’t show anger or frustration. Don’t yell at them for contracting head lice because it’s not their fault. It can happen to anyone at any age, any given time.Explain the Situation to Them
